My life experiences

Ever imagined, What if we could see our life through birdseye view?    If one has decoded true meaning of life, he'd realize that life is like a maze game. Some paths are broad while some are narrow. Some paths are closed and some seems closed but they have narrow exits attached to them.  We get tangled because we are unable to decode life. For those who have decoded and understood it, they start playing and enjoying like me. They become adventurous. They love experimenting as they know there's definite exit with narrow path and yes this is what Islam teaches us.  " Surely, with each difficulty there is ease"  (Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al-Inshirah)  For those who think: 1. Time will never change.  2. These hardships will last forever.  3. Lost hope and gave up with everything.  4. Their hardship is beyond their handling capacity.  5. Their problem is extremely complicated and unsolvable.  They need to understand ...

Due to early adoption of programming and continuous communication/interaction with computer in computer language rather than communicating with surrounding and human beings in human language I have observed following changes in my personality,  1) I have started finding logic behind normal aspects, situations. Not everything needs to have logic behind it. Hence it creates sense of non-satisfaction and anxiety if there is no logic behind some situation. 2) I have started observing things in extra technical and logical way, unlike others. 3) Turned myself into overthinker and making simple things over complicated for no reason. It happens due to problem solving skills adoption. As programmers always thinks long term for the code to work bug-free, overthinking becomes part of personality for even normal things. My decision making power is super damaged with over thinking. Can't decide over things, shopping, etc. 4) My explanation and interaction skills are damaged. I cannot simply ela...

I know job conditions are tough and competition is very high as well. You must be desperate about getting one but you should NEVER apply in bulk for many reasons including: 1. Mail servers puts your email address into black list and only a few email reaches to recipients, rest are either rejected and bounced Or directly land into spam folder. 2. Reputed companies will never entertain your query even if they are desperately looking for the same because its kind of professional insult to apply in an organization without having to know them or know jd or job criteria. 3. It reflects your laziness in job hunt process and lack of interest in knowing them, their openings and jd. You are not interested in doing hunt on openings through job sites, linkedin, newspaper rather than you prefer to throw your cv like a paper ball in bulk to 100+ companies. 4. They will also not call you as your application does not reflect seriousness and its practically impossible for a candidate to manage intervie...

What actually being successful is all about? Success has different meanings in different contexts. For some people success is about achieving what they have targeted. or getting ahead of competitors or defeating them is success. According to my perspective, being standard or optimal or balanced in most possible aspects of life to achieve maximum peace or satisfaction is success. In our daily life (specifically typical urban life), we have set extreme targets. To achieve beyond-the-capacity targets we have setup milestones that takes us away from our actual inner desires and requires great compromises, takes precious belongings and sometimes beyond the capacity efforts on each stage. I call it CoMateriaLusticPool - a Whirlpool that keeps you rotating deeper in noisy ocean that is full of Commercialism, materialism and lust. I myself am victim of Comaterialusticpool. The more milestone I achieve, the more I lose peace, patience and pleasure. Seems like we've vowed to get ahea...